To the girl who got broken up with after having sex. Im a guy and i love girls with small breasts. Its actually a major turn on to me. Dont let it bothet you. Hes the one losing out. Not you.
Anonymous: Serious question no disrespect but why do flat chested girls even wear bras? I mean I wear a bra to keep my boobs from sagging when I get older and ofcourse for clothes and hard nipps. But if u are flat chested why waste the money?
Nips and coverage of the chest since it is considered a private part.
blogofinspirationandacceptance: Ok. Honesty time. Forgive me for bad language etc. Let me start by saying sorry on behalf of the male population for all the assholey things that have been said and done to you in relation to your boobs, bodies, looks, clothing and everything
(Continued) In between. If I could I’d knock a good dose of decency into those that have wronged you. Next. Just because a few shits have put you down doesn’t mean you have to follow suit and do the same thing. Disregard what you’ve been told and look for what you find nice about yourself. Because I can tell you right now I cannot see one fucking flaw on any of you. You all are beautiful, smart, sexy and gorgeous. And if anyone dares tell you other otherwise find the nearest cactus and jam it where the sun doesn’t shine. Remember, you are all gorgeous the way you are. Don’t let the negativity of others bring you down. Just keep a few cacti handy :P
I never really cared about how I looked until I reached a certain maturity. I guess society has made me feel less of a woman because of how small my breasts are. [I feel less of a woman..isn’t that sad?] Some days I am totally confident with them and I don’t think twice. I have always had a slim figure and I am fairly confident with how I look [face, body, & personality]. Other days, all of that flies out the window and I literally obsess over other photos of women and their breasts and how much more amazing I would feel if I got a breast augmentation. I have definitely contemplated on going through with this surgery. My mother and one of my sisters have already had theirs done. They both say it is the best thing that they have ever done for themselves. I honestly think that every women is beautiful in their own way. Natural, of course, is the way to go. But some people have no fucking idea how it feels to be actually depressed over self insecurity with having no breasts. It is so easy for a man or woman to say, people with breast implants are fake.. first of all, fuck you. You can’t judge who a person is just because of this. I am happy for those who do what they feel is best for them. But in my case, I am confused and don’t know what I want. My boyfriend says he loves my breasts. Though he only touches my nipples [all the time actually]. He doesn’t really play with my boobs that much. There isn’t much to play with.. I asked him about how he feels if I got implants. At first he hated the idea. Although he “likes large boobs he loves mine”. Everyone has in their head that they are hard as a rock and feel fake. [Some are, but If done right, they feel and look real]. I asked again and he says he just wants me to be happy and confident with myself.. which is pathetic of me to look for someone else’s opinion over my body. If I did get a breast augmentation [which I most likely won’t because of the money lol] I don’t even want huge boobs, I just want some cleavage! (B 250ccs or less). Anyway, the whole point of this submission was to express myself and kinda see how people felt about how I look out of curiosity. Don’t be nice, be honest. Thanks
34AA. On some days, I feel good about them. On other days, I really don’t. The insensitive comments get to me every time, though. My one curvy friend (no longer a friend for obvious reaons) walked by Forever21 one day and said, “That store isn’t for real women. It’s for girls with no curves!” just when I was about to walk in, and on multiple other occasions she’d see other petite girls and say how bad she felt for them because they’re so flat. I’m obviously a very petite girl… didn’t she ever think that could potentially hurt my feelings? I’d never put down her body type or anyone’s for that matter; they’re all beautiful!
Then there’s my boyfriend, he touches them a lot and gives me compliments very often (I should be ecstatic, right?!), but that gets cancelled out in my mind because he’s frequently making big boob jokes (ex: he touches his chest and tells me how “huge” his tits are… ha ha ha, very funny -.-), watches tons of porn with big-busted women, and has even told me if he had a type… it would be a curvy, tan Brazilian girl (I asked him, to be fair — he didn’t say it out of nowhere).
HOWEVER, he let’s me know that despite him being attracted to other types just like I can be attracted to other types, he’s extremely attracted to me and loves all of me very much. Regardless, I let him know how insecure I feel about my size and don’t appreciate the jokes at all… he didn’t realize how much it affected me so he stopped (for the most part) and recommended I’d do something about it if it bothers me that much (boob job, take breast enhancement pills, take estrogen, etc.), but that would probably have no-so-good side effects and just to accept myself the way I am like he does. It just bugs me that he still refers to my boobs as nipples. I know my chest is super tiny, but they’re not just nipples! Can you tell how conflicted I am? This blog REALLY helps, though. Whenever I feel down, IBTC is there to bring me back up.Thank you! :D <3