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 Anonymous: How to feel sexy when you feel humiliated everytime you see a girl with bigger breasts than you, and I see that like everywhere? I have no confidence.

I’ve always felt bad about my breasts, and even though my boyfriend likes bigger breasts he’s always said he really likes my body. That doesn’t change the fact I’m insecure about them. Anyway, one day I asked him about an actress he likes who has implants, and I asked him what he would think if I had a boob job too and had my breasts look like hers. He said he wouldn’t mind. I know that’s stupid but I was really offended. I think I would just like him to prefer my small but natural breasts over any fake ones… My self-esteem is awful and I don’t know what to do about it anymore. I keep looking for reasons to feel terrible about my body and I keep forcing my boyfriend to say things I know I’m not gonna like.

 Anonymous: Hello! I would just like to know if you've heard of the NuBra. I'm wearing a backless dress for prom and the NuBra looks like a great solution for hiding my bra, but I'm scared that my breasts might be too small for it to work and fit right (im 32A). Is there anyone out there who have tried it on or heard of it?

Yes could someone advise the perfect strapless and backless bra? I’ve been looking into nipple pasties as well, how have those worked out?

 froggyd69: To the guy who's gf says he don't have a choice. He can just reassure her that he wouldn't want it any other way. She's perfect the way she is.

 hernewtool: My girl has ibt's. I tell her how sexy and beautiful she is all the time, and she says "you don't have a choice if you want to be with me". How can turn her negativity towards me trying to make her feel confident and turn it into a positive for her?

 Anonymous: Even Noodle from Gorillaz has IBT's (in the last album, in the previous phases she was completely flat) and she looks totally rad! Yeah, couldn't resist to say it, since I love the band and those amazing characters ;)

 Anonymous: Hey I submitted the pic of myself holding up my black shirt (the girl without the bellybutton piercing) and it makes me so happy to see the notes and the compliments people give! Thanks everyone! :) I love you and me!

Yaaaay! 😊

(Source: mollystonephoto)

So stoked on this 60s era nylon & lace nightie I just scored! I sell vintage clothing and it is so hard to find lingerie that was not made for a Marilyn Monroe bod. This flowing beauty hugs my itty bitties perfectly. I always keep my eye out for small-busted vintage pieces and will be listing similar nighties in the same size range soon in my Etsy shop Violet Folklore. Thanks so much for the blog, I came upon it when I was feeling really down about my breasts last year and it has helped tremendously (that and the fact that my boyfriend loves them- in fact this nightie came off about two minutes after I tried it on for him!).

So stoked on this 60s era nylon & lace nightie I just scored! I sell vintage clothing and it is so hard to find lingerie that was not made for a Marilyn Monroe bod. This flowing beauty hugs my itty bitties perfectly. I always keep my eye out for small-busted vintage pieces and will be listing similar nighties in the same size range soon in my Etsy shop Violet Folklore. Thanks so much for the blog, I came upon it when I was feeling really down about my breasts last year and it has helped tremendously (that and the fact that my boyfriend loves them- in fact this nightie came off about two minutes after I tried it on for him!).

As a guy I hang around this site because I am passionate about promoting better understanding between men and women. From my perspective this means understanding what it is like to be a woman. I find it quite moving (and often sad) to read of how you (women) feel about your bodies. My initial reaction is always “you must be joking, I think you’re beautiful. I’d love to have a body like yours.” But I do realise that’s how you feel and part of the reason you feel that way is due to the way we guys talk about women’s bodies. I’ve been part of that too in the way I have sometimes spoken about women and, more particularly, in not speaking up when other guys speak that way. I think perhaps each of the guys who have spoken here, each in their own way, have been trying to say “sorry”.
I’m not sure, as some have pointed out, it’s particularly helpful for us to say we prefer small boobs because that’s just continuing the judgement game. What we really love is women. We love all of you. We love how you look. We love the way you think. We love the things you are interested in and talk about. We love the perspective you bring to the world. We just love being with you.
-aguywholoveswomen

 Anonymous: i'm so flat chested, i'm almost concave. i cant even fit a kiddie a cup or a lulalu triple a. I'm not small. I'm flat and i wish i was someone different

 ink-apotheosis: I think guys have trouble understanding how to contribute to the discussion here. Obviously the majority of us like, if not outright prefer, smaller boobs - and that's a big part of why we're here. And since we admire this quality, it can be difficult for (some of us) to understand why this might be hard for women. We (most of us anyway) don't have "boobs" and don't know what it's like to be stigmatized that way. And so, our response is to try to counter the criticism with encouragement.

Iv’e finally started to love my small boobs.

Iv’e finally started to love my small boobs.

Pretty little bras like this one make me feel better about my ibts :) Learn to love em fellow ibtc ladies!

Pretty little bras like this one make me feel better about my ibts :) Learn to love em fellow ibtc ladies!